Deserve Better!

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In our daily life, we make lots of decision, meet lots people, and deal lots of situations. There are some things that we can control what the outcome will be, but there are some things we can’t change at all. In this blog, I am going to talk about what we should do when we can’t change a thing in a situation.

We need to realize that nothing is going to be perfect and not everything will follow the way we want. Have you ever in a position that you are not happy but you know there is nothing you can do to change? Have you ever feel that you don’t want to be in a situation but you just can’t resist it? We’ve all been to those kinds of situations once a while, or maybe stuck in it for a long time. We start to feel depress, unhappy, and more and more negative emotion comes up. I am not the psychologist, but I know life is so short that we should not put ourselves in those bad situations at all. We don’t have the ability to change the situation, but we have the power to choose to stay out of those. When we realize it is not working no matter how much effort we put in, we need to have clear mind to evaluate pros and cons.

Everything is just a choice we make, which we have the ability and responsibility to choose what is better for us. We all understand there are better choices waiting for us on the corner, but we just can’t face the truth. We stay in the situation that we feel comfortable with, which is the main reason we are afraid to change. We are easily get used to everything and become the pattern in our lives. So when there is a problem, we don’t know what we really want anymore. We put ourselves in the deep black hole and never get up.

We all deserve better! Here are steps that we can follow:

  1. Clean your mind and figure out what is the original life we pursue
  2. Evaluate the life now and see if pros are much more than cons
  3. Find your courage back
  4. Understand we don’t need to insist on anything if we don’t feel joy anymore
  5. Trust yourself that everything will definitely be better than now

 

 

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